The communicator
growing up with a passion for books and a compulsion for reading, it seems inevitable now that my skillbase would be anything other than communications.
Beginning my career writing just as print media met it’s demise, I had the opportunity to write feature articles for The age, the big issue, and an array of independent print publications, before pivoting to write sketch comedy for television for eight years.
dissatisfied and disillusioned with the comedy industry, my trajectory changed completely and I began writing erotica and scripts for adult film, successfully selling several ‘Australiana’ narratives to European producers before jumping into the Australian scene as a writer, director, and performer.
For almost twenty years, my work has focused on the adult industry with a particular focus on the k!nk and bd$m communities of which I am an out and proud member. in the post-50 shades era, I found several publications willing to publish my articles on the realities of BD$M play and dynamics - pushing back on the 50 shades phenomenon, rather than pandering to it. Currently, I’ve been a k!nk content contributor to the Adult Match Maker s3x and relationship blog for ten years.
my communication skills are not just written. I have created and hosted an award-winning podcast (our kink), Em-ceed events (provocation spank-a-thon co-host - provocation slave auction co-host) and facilitated a number of public forums for both Oz Kink Fest and Studio of secrets.
currently i provide website building and maintenance, marketing/promotional copy, editorial services, administrative assistance, and blog content for a number of private clients within australia.
I am available for both writing and speaking gigs.
rates start at $50 p/h
discounts available for start-ups.
The administrator
many of the skills I developed studying communications and professional writing have been useful in pivoting to administrative work.
I am a resourceful researcher and a natural problem solver with refined critical thinking skills that can be utilised in one-off projects or day-to-day operations
key competencies:
communications (written and verbal)
attention to detail
customer service
microsoft office suite
planning and prioritising (time management)
equally comfortable working autonomously or as a team member
website maintenance and management (Squarespace, weebly, wordpress, wix)
flexible, adaptable, able to pivot
quick and able learner
i have successfully utilised these skills in the capacity of personal assistant, marketing co-ordination, event management, business management, and project management.
rates start at $50 p/h
discounts available for start-ups
The service top
what is a service top?
as a service-oriented human my sensual and psychological joy comes from satiating others.
service topping is a way for me to feel safe and empowered while i participate in intimate play via K!nk and BD$M.
what you will experience is an authentic interaction with an engaged top ready to explore and enjoy your company.
i am available to:
accompany you to events for public play
DISCUSS YOUR K!NKS AND FANTASIES OVER A MEAL
SESSION WITH YOU PRIVATELY FROM HEDON HOUSE OR BOOKED ACCOMMODATION
ENGAGE ONLINE VIA CHAT, PHONE, OR VIDEO CALL
TUTOR AND TRAIN YOU IN THE ART OF ENGAGING A MISTRESS - YOU WANT ONE? THEN EARN HER.
My general presentation will be casual, but k!nky - think basic black, alternative/gothic vibe. if you desire a certain ‘look’ for your session or our meet-up, i am happy to meet your needs for an additional tribute.
rules of engagement
although i don’t define myself as a ‘mistress’ or require the honorifics that would commonly apply, I will only engage with those who can communicate with respect and follow my guidelines.
if enquiring via email, be sure to include:
activities you wish to explore
your current experience level
any relevant medical conditions or medications that can impact your play, eg. current injuries, blood pressure medications, ptsd, anxiety
the required session length (minimum one hour)
the event you wish to attend or preferred location to meet
I prefer to session from the beautifully equipped Hedon House but i can also bring my bag ‘o’ tricks to your accommodation.
i don’t outcall to private residences
private sessions or s3x on premises (sop) events can include hand relief
SPECIALITIES
NERVOUS NEW CLIENTS AND FIRST-TIMERS:
LET ME PUT YOU AT EASE AND INTRODUCE YOU TO K!NK PLAY WITHOUT THE STRESS OF HIGH PROTOCOL INTERACTIONS AND EXPECTATIONS. LET’S JUST PLAY!
SENSUAL IMPACT:
ONE OF MY MOST SOUGHT-AFTER SKILLS AND ALSO A FAVOURITE OF MINE! FROM BARE-HANDED SP4NKING TO LIGHT SCRATCHES AND TEASING OF YOUR EROGENOUS ZONES WITH A LIGHT FLOGGING, SENSUAL IMPACT IS MULTI-LAYERED, VERSATILE, AND USED TO INFLICT a range of sensations - including pain if that’s what you crave.
light humiliation play:
permit me to talk down to you and bruise your ego with a glare. my style of humiliation play is light and slightly bratty, verging on the classic ‘school bully’. i might even steal your lunch and make you wear it.
butt stuff:
i offer light an4l play - massage, digital stimulation, and toys, but fisting, hooks, and heavier an4l is only available to regular clients once i’ve judged your capacity
due to current health capacities i only offer strap-on play during double domme sessions.
all clients requesting this service must be willing to comply with my guidelines for butt stuff.
trampling and foot fetish:
standing barefoot at 5’10” and weighing around 65kg, you are guaranteed to feel me grounded upon you. trampling can be a simple sensual experience or transform into a layered psychological journey - it all depends on what you want to get out of the experience.
waxplay: artistic & sensual
i am a very experienced wax player, taught by one of australia’s master of the art - sur jack bastard. my skills with wax mean i can give a range of sensations safely and without damage to the skin. i am technically proficient with both candle and wax pot application. wax pot sessions do incur an extra charge of $50 to cover extra wax.
hard limits
scat, vomit, filth play
price negotiation
i do not bottom or submit - don’t ask
i only session sober and expect the same from you - let’s debrief with a drink
intimate touch on me is unacceptable unless part of a pre-established roleplay or scene - keep your hands to yourself. you will receive one verbal warning and if the boundary is pushed again your session will cease
butt play clients are expected to follow my guidelines for a clean workspace. if your colon is found to be full the play will not go ahead. your session will not cease, but we will have to find other ways to entertain ourselves.
rates
basic bd$m session: $300 p/h
add-ons:
butt play: $100
g/s: $50
heavy wax: $50
mistress roleplay (leather or latex) : $200